I’m not sure who Antara is, but found this on the internet and thought it was lovely.
…Sometimes I think Spirit puts us in these families and situations so that we are kick-started onto the path. So we can see easily what we are NOT. So begins the search to find out what/who we ARE. We also begin to look for the lost tribe, the true family. Finding drummers who are moving to the same beat as you.
If you haven’t found them, don’t give up hope. Put out the call in the form of a prayer—“Spirit, help me to find my people, my teachers, good kindred spirits that I may learn with in a joyful way upon my path, ones who will love and support me in my growth as I will do for them.”